Don't try to control everything. 

We just need to focus on only two things in life: discerning what is controllable and what is uncontrollable. It's about recognizing behind all choices without deceiving yourself.

I think this is a crucial lesson for most people throughout their lives: distinguishing what we can change and what we cannot.

If you're late for work today, it's because of poor sleep control - no amount of complaining can change the morning traffic. If you were born into an ordinary family, in terms of resources, connections, and money - no amount of complaining can compare to a child born rich. No matter how hard you try today, you can't make everyone like you or agree with your opinions.

I can tell you that excessive attachment is not the way we want to approach life's challenges.

Get to the core, understanding the causes of events. A person's present state is the result of the choices they made each day in the past. No one can change the choices they've made or the harm they've suffered in the past.

My dear friends, please remember: we always have the power to control our current choices.

If we can clearly recognize what is within our control, it will not only make our lives easier, but it will also be our greatest advantage and weapon when facing major decisions in the future.