Don't be fooled

Your chaotic life, failed relationships, career setbacks, and physical exhaustion are all fake. You must learn to find the underlying truth.

Chaotic life: Because you allow yourself to be lazy.

Failed relationships: Because you can’t identify your partner's needs.

Career setbacks: Because you don't know how to deal with people.

Physical exhaustion: Because you don't rest enough.

Extraordinary people recognized this long ago and developed its own "system," and they stick to it. Therefore, whether in public or in private, they are consistent inside out. What you see is what you see.

Many people have chaotic lives beneath their glamorous exteriors. I once had the opportunity to meet a beautiful girl, she dressed well and looked elegant — she’s gorgeous. But during our dates and chats, I found that her conversations revolved around gossip and were filled with hatred and resentment towards her ex.

That wasn't the worst part. One day, I was invited to her home and suddenly discovered something even more shocking - this beautiful lady’s home was incredibly messy.

It's not hard to tell from our first date that conversation reveals her inner world. No matter how beautiful her appearance, if the mind is chaotic and cluttered, then having a chaotic life is inevitable.

Most things you see are an illusion; don't ignore the truth.

We should learn from the top 1%. Build a "system" for yourselves, be consistent on how you appear in public and private.